Meet Laney Lui

As your life coach, my role is to help you find your own solutions, to exercise those parts of your brain that already hold the skills you need to step into the future... and to give you the self-belief that you deserve that future.

Life coaching has supported my breakthrough during my breakdown...

As someone who has experienced breakdown and turned it into breakthrough, I know the struggle. I also know the power in overcoming and the strength in compassion that comes from the process. I can walk alongside you. The journey is never over, and I know I continue to grow in my interactions with folks professionally and personally. The possibility of growth, no matter your starting point, is what makes me so passionate about my role as a life coach. We will look deeply at the beliefs and habits that are holding you back, then start to build a vision of your future that meets your personal goals and priorities. Only when we know where we’re going will we start to build a path to get there, I will accompany you through the joy and the discomfort of breaking through the things that are preventing you from getting there.

My Story

I don’t know how many times in my life I thought I’ve hit rock bottom. Those moments are far and few, when I experience it though, it’s so painful and real. I didn’t have the awareness, knowledge, or tools to properly address those emotions. I did the best I know how. The way I responded to these life events made me a survivor, and it shaped my ways of being.

Having experienced abuse in my childhood and being estranged from my father, I can relate to those who have experienced despair and hopelessness. The journey has taught me how to be strong, how to be independent, how to forgive, and how to love. It is miraculous, I have reconnected, and in my own ways re-writing the story of my relationship with my father.

To the outside world, my life had always been incredible, progressive career with top companies, amazing friends, great social life, beautiful home, and also enjoying some juicy romance — it’s in my head that sometimes I couldn’t enjoy it because of my saboteurs (aka demons, inner-critic, etc.). So to the outside world, it probably looks quite similar, I bet by now you know it’s not!

MY JOURNEY...

I got married in my 20s and learnt a lot about myself through the divorce. Being a single mother was a challenging journey, it ultimately pushed me to the breakdown that led me to face hard truths about ways of being to the breakthrough I got that led me to the path of where I am today. I hope to contribute and inspire the folks I cross paths with towards living their best lives.

THERE ARE NO MISTAKES...

My experience were just events that occurred that shined a light on of my ways of being and how my values showed up in these areas of my life.

By the end of our time together, your life may be radically different from where you started, or it may look similar from the outside, but with a stronger, more self-compassionate you at the centre.

- Laney Lui

So What?

It’s rare for someone to not have experienced some turbulence in their life. I’m not sure there’s such a thing as a perfect-flawless life. Sometimes we raise up beyond our highest peak, sometimes we stumble below our lowest valleys, and sometimes we encounter stretches of peacefulness.

My story is personal to me, and hope that no reader uses it to compare their journey. The reason it is significant is because I gotten miraculous transformation for myself. In my mind, I was so certain there was no way to overcome certain circumstances, I had reconnect and rebuilding a relationship with my father (whom I’ve been estranged with for 10 years), I had breakthrough candid conversations professionally. The feeling of despair and hopelessness at times and flourishing after is one that I am familiar with and know that it is possible to co-create your world.

Results

My specialty is relationships, because great relationships change everything! The most radical shift is the relationship you have with yourself. The universe has a way to show us where we need to grow as we naturally.

Relationships will transform your performance in all areas of life. Once you become aware of your patterns and tendencies, you can be intentional with how you show up.

If you put in the work and embrace what is, a breakthrough is inevitable. When we enhance our relationship with ourselves, our performance soars to new heights and anything we want for ourselves or our life is possible!

Certification & Training

These are the modalities I am certified or have training in:

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EQ-i 2.0® Certified Practitioner

The Emotional Quotient Inventory (EQ-i 2.0) is the world’s leading measure of emotional intelligence, applying decades of research to support effective human performance and development.

The fifteen competencies in the scientifically validated EQ-i 2.0 model are highly correlated with inspirational leadership, innovative work cultures, highly-effective teams, and engaged and committed talent. And the best news – these are learned skills that we can develop and improve!

Positive Intelligence, PQ Coach

Positive Intelligence is the science and practice of developing mastery over your own mind so you can reach your full potential for both happiness and success.

There are 10 saboteurs, saboteurs start off as our guardians to help us survive the real and imagined threats to our physical and emotional survival as children. By the time we are adults, we no longer need them, but they have become invisible inhabitants of our mind.

Our Saboteurs’ patterns of thinking, feeling, and reacting become soft-coded in our brain through neural pathways. When these neural pathways are triggered, we are “hijacked” by our Saboteurs and feel, think, and act using their patterns.

The Judge’s 9 accomplice Saboteurs are classified based on their motivation and style.

Certified Co-Active® Coach

Co-Active is the philosophy of wholeness that provides a framework for people to experience the infinite possibilities of life. Co-Active grows you as a leader through conversation, actions, and awareness—and gets you outside your comfort zone, exploring your own boundaries and becoming aware of the impact you’re having around you.

Certified Associate Certified Coach

Anyone can call themselves a coach. But ICF-credentialed coaches are professionals who have met stringent education and experience requirements, and have demonstrated a thorough understanding of the coaching competencies that set the standard in the profession. Additionally, they adhere to strict ethical guidelines as part of ICF’s mission to protect and serve coaching consumers.

Landmark Worldwide Trained

Landmark emphasizes the idea that there is a difference between the facts of what happened in a situation, and the meaning, interpretation, or story about those facts. It proposes that people frequently confuse those facts with their own story about them, and, as a consequence, are less effective or experience suffering in their lives.

Meaning is something that human beings invent in language, Landmark suggests – it’s not inherent in events themselves. Therefore, if people change what they say, they can alter the meaning they associate with events and be more effective in dealing with them.